Leadership is a Choice: How Small Actions Shape Your Influence

Many believe leadership comes with a title—a manager, an executive, or someone in a position of authority. But real leadership isn’t about rank. It’s about choice.

A few years ago, I facilitated a meeting between nine business partners, all actively involved in the company. The tension in the room was thick—voices rising, frustrations mounting, and egos clashing.

Then, something remarkable happened.

One partner—who held no more authority than anyone else—chose to lead. Instead of fueling the chaos, they paused, acknowledged everyone’s concerns, and calmly redirected the conversation toward solutions.

No one gave them that role. They chose it.

Leadership is Defined by Action, Not Authority

As Simon Sinek explains in Leaders Eat Last, true leadership isn’t about being in charge—it’s about taking care of those in your charge. It’s not just about making big strategic decisions; it’s about the small, daily choices that build trust and influence.

✅ Choosing to listen when others just want to speak.

✅ Staying calm when emotions run high.

✅ Committing to serve, not just direct.

Leadership Happens Everywhere

Leadership isn’t limited to boardrooms—it’s in meetings, friendships, family interactions, and everyday moments. The real question is: Are you taking action?

Titles don’t make leaders. Decisions do.